Kabhi Alvida Na Kehna.... Is It Possible??

Hi Guys..
Iam back again..

Well..if u r thinking that its going to be abt one more movie again....
let me make it clear to U that its not going to be abt any movie or movie review..:-)

okk.. so let me start it now..

Have U ever thought how good it will be when U never have to say Adieu to some one..
U Just be with your friends, parents, loved ones.. with out having to leave them one day... :-)

hmm.. if thats the case.. then it may not be called.. Life.. :-)

yeah.. many a times in our Life.. we will to go through the phase..
where we have to leave some one with whom we had good fun.. njoyed the time spent together...
n move on with our life..

I dont think there is any person in this world..who didnt went through this phase...
n Iam Just going through the same now...

Well.. its not that Iam doing it for the very first time..
but still... its never going to be easy..
when U have to say Adieu to some one.. atleast to me.. :-)

I still remember the day when I was leaving my Engg friends and room mates..
I was crying the whole day with out any break.. :-)
Then I was there crying again.. when my CTS batch friends r leaving me.. :-)

n It seems it has become a habit of mine to cry or rather make a scene.. :-)
when ever some one leaves me.. or I have to say Adieu to some one.. :-(

n this time Iam saying Adieu to my project.. hahaha :-)
hmm.... Iam sure U wouldnt have expected to me say all these things..
Just bcz Iam leaving the project.. :-)

Well.. I have a 3 year association with this project..
So... its not going to be easy for me.. :-)

I have made lots of friends all these years during my stay in this project....
had good fun with them.. shared my happiness n also sadness with them.. n now Iam leaving them.. moving on with my life to new place.. new ppl.. new project..

Now.. thats what Life is all about..

We meet some one.. make friendship with them.. have fun with them.. njoy the time spent together.. n then we leave them...

U Just cant really blame any one for this...

The only thing we can do is...

We have to be happy that.. We happened meet them... to be a part of our Life..
had gud time with them.. njoyed each n every moment with them..
n we can only cherish those moments in the rest of our Life..

n Finally... as Iam leaving my current project..
let me say some thing abt my onsite friends n team mates.. who are really helpful to me all these days.. n who made my stay in NL.. an njoyable one.. :-)



my friends liked my blogs so much so that.. they always used to tease me.. asking me to write some thing abt them in my blog.. :-)

n now that Iam leaving this project.. I thought its the right time for me to say my Hearties Thanks to each n every1 of them.. for their help n cooperation all these days.. by dedicating this post to them.. :-)
Thanks a lot Guys.. Iam lucky to have U guys as my team.. :-)

hmmm.. I think its high time that I should say Alvida to all of U...
by putting an end to this post..

hope U njoyed reading it.. n as always comments r welcome.. :-)

Alvida,
Sunil.

Friendship day.. A day with Friends... :-)

Hii...
Happy Friendship day!!!..

Well.. Today is a friendship day.. A day to remember ur friends..

When all of us are thinking that its gr8 to have a day for friends..
don't u think its funny to have a specific day for friends..
When U Just can't live a single day with out friends!!..

okk.. seems to be some stupid argument.. let me stop it here and share my so called friendship day experience with u all..




I thought its been a long time that I called any of my friends these days.. So atleast let me call them today..

as I started thinking of my friends.. I remebered my BTech friend.. Its been long time that I spoke to him..So I called him..n We completed the formalities by wishing happy friendship day to each other.. n before I could say anything else..
can u call me after some time.. Iam out with my Wife.. reply from my friend..Oops..I didnt expected this.. I can only say.. cool buddy.. njoy.. :-)

hmm...let me try my school buddy this time..the first time I couldnt get him.. I tried again.. n Luckily..this time I got him..n same story repeates here..
Sorry ra..Iam on a way to temple with my wife, dad, mom, uncle..etc..
then only I realized that he got married one month back.. njoying his newly married life.. :-)

Well.. I was feeling pity for those guys..
they dont even have time to speak to their friends also..
neways... I have decided lets not call family persons any more.. :-)

okk.. let me try my chennai bachelor roommate this time..
n unfortunately I got the wrong guy again..
my friend is in some Internet cafe..
busy chatting with his girl friend in Singapore.. :-)
But he is kind enough to spare some time for me.. :-)

I dont know whats happening.. I wanted to speak to someone..
but every1 is busy with his wife, girl friend njoying in their own world.. :-)

hmm..let me give a try again.. I make sure this time by calling one who is a bachelor n doest have a girl friend.. atleast upto my knowledge.. :-)

So, I called my other friend in chennai..
n before I could say anything.. bang comes d reply..
Mama.. Iam in Basant nagar beach..with my girl friend..
n I was totally taken by surprise this time..
When did he got a girl friend?? or the right question might be..
how did he also managed to get a girl friend.. hahaha :-)

hmm.. Now I have decided its enough.. Iam not going to call any one any more..
I called four of my friends.. n I Just couldn't spoke 2 mins with any one.. :-(

So, I took the simple n cheaper way..
I opened orkut.. Just scrapped all my friends wishing the so called
Happy Friendship day.. n my friendship day over.. :-)


By now.. I got one thing clear..
Friends can be with you only to a certain part of your life...once they got married or more importantly got a girl friend..
It wont be the same any more..
no chatting for hours.. no mid night movies.. :-(
priorites gets changed..family nope.. girl friends comes first.. :-)
In short..U wont be having the freedom to spend ur own time in the way u want..

hmm... Iam not blaming any one here.. let me be clear on this.. :-)
I might do the same thing when I get marry..
and who knows.. may b all of us will do the same..

now u know why my argument was stupid...
how funny it is.. U Just can't live a single day with out friends.. hahaha :-)

Well.. if u r thinking its end of the story..where friends got separated with each other..n there is no more friendship between them.. then as usual u r mistaken again... :-)
The actual story begins only here.. do keep reading.. :-)

let me narrate a small story to uncover the actual story...

After creating this world.. GOD wants to do something more..then he created a Guy..now this Guy is all alone.. There is no one to share his happiness, sadness.. his feelings with him..

So, he requested GOD to create a friend for him...
now these two friends are always together.. njoying each moment.. sharing their happiness, sadness with each other..n they r always there for each other..n they never ever required God for any help...

now GOD is also started feeling jealous of their friendship..he wanted to separate them.. but the friendship is so strong that there is hardly anything GOD also can do to break it...

after thinking a lot.. finally GOD created Wife/Girl friends.. hahaha.. :-)now these friends are not able to spend any time together.. they stopped calling each other.. n slowly they dont have time to talk also to each other... :-(

now GOD is feeling happy that they need HIM to help them now..
But it is the time.. when GOD also went wrong.. :-)

The friends may not be calling each other.. may be they dont have time to speak to each other..But friends will always be there when U r in need of them..when you require any help from them..

U dont really require a GOD to solve your problems..
the very feeling of having a freind can be ur strength to solve all ur problems..
If u cant.. ur Friends are always there to solve ur problems.. :-)

Thanks U for being my friend buddy.. :-)
now U must always be there with me to solve my probles.. hahaha.. :-)




Well.. Thats the end of story..hope u njoyed reading.. :-)
n Guys..dont take it to ur heart..its just for fun.. :-)

now be a Good friend of mine.. n write down ur comments on this..

Life in Netherlands.. Countless Emotions!!!

In dino, dil mera..
mujhse hai keh raha..
Tu khwab saja, Tu ji le jara..
hai tujhe bhi izaazat, karle tu bhi mohabbat..

Well, this might be just a song from Life in a Metro movie for U all..
but for me, it truly reflects my Life in Netherlands..

Yup.. Iam totally in Love with this place, the ppl, the culture.. atleast the Work Culture..n as always the girls here... :-)

Its been seven months since I came here..
it was really a nice stay for me here all these days..
exploring lots of new places.. Italy, Swiss,Brussels,Luxemberg...
n I just can't say how fast the time has gone.. :-)

hmm...
This might be the reason ppl say...
Time just flies when U r in Love... hahaha.. :-)

Well..
I have to accept that there are tough times getting accustomed to the new place,
new ppl, new way of working...
n toughest being getting used to the bread n jam, burger n Pizzas.. :-)
Luckily.. Iam the kind of person who can cope up with any one in any place at any time.. hahaha:-)

So, lets start the movie.. Life in Netherlands.. Countless Emotions!!!

Before mentioning anything else abt NL, let me start with the ppl here..

I have never expected ppl to be so friendly n helpful here..
after being here for so long, the only thing I can say is..
If U r coming to NL.. a friendly Welcome is always guaranteed.. :-)

Then comes the place..
n Just like what the directors does in our Indian movies,
a song is really required to describe this beautiful place.. :-)
btw U can also have a break... there is much more to come.. :-)

n here comes one more song...

Dharti sunehri ambar neela, har mausam rangeela..
Aisa desh hai NL, ho.... aisa desh hai NL..
Jaisa desh hai hamara India, haan.... aisa desh hai NL .. hahaha. :-)

I feel this song alone is enough to describe the beauty of this place... :-)

Guys.. the song is over now.. n hope U also had a gud break.. :-)

now comes the Culture, Way of living n all... a bit boring stuff.. hahaha. :-)
hmm.. before this, let me talk about our Work culture..

We Indians, think its ok to stretch a bit more, work late nights..
n worst being coming to office on weekends...
In simple we give more priority to office than our Family n Personal life..

n here..
Ppl just give utmost priority to their Personal life than anything else..

Just 4 working days a week..
n leave d office by 4pm, no matter what happens.. :-)
U can hardly find ne1 in the office after 5pm..
or I would say.. U can only find them in the nearest pub or theater.. hahaha :-)

n now comes the most important thing...

U can't really conclude saying abt NL,
with out a special mentioning abt The Dutch Girls.. hahaha.. :-)

Yup.. Dutch girls are the most beautiful one I have seen so far..
or might be the case that after being in chennai for two years..
almost every girl here looks beautiful to me... hahaha.. :-)

Well.. if any girl is reading this..
Iam sorry.. There is no offence meant..
its just one more bad joke from me.. :-)

huh.. that concludes the story of Netherlands...

Hello... wait a minute.. there is still much more to come.. :-)

Now, U must be thinking Iam really njoying my life here..
visiting lots of new places n all..
n There is nothing wrong.. The grass on the other side always looks greener.. :-)

But if I ask the same question to myself..(here comes again)....
Deep In the Heart of Mine I feel, Iam not really njoying it..

Yup..

I would njoy more being on a trip to Koorg with my offshore team, than going to a trip to Italy or Swiss!!!
I would njoy more watching even a TAMIL movie with my friends in Sathyam Theater, than watching SPIDERMAN-3 in Imax theatre!!!
I would love spending the evening in BasantNagar beach with my roommates, than going out to the so called foreign Denhaag beach!!!
n finally
I feel real taste eating Idly Sambar in Murugan Idly center, than eating a Pizza in an Italian Restaurant!!!

Yeah.. Iam missing my family, friends, roommates, teammates..
n the list is endles.. :-(

hmm.. might be these thoughts sound silly to U all...
There is no wonder.. most of my friends think Iam a Silly guy.. hahaha.. :-)
if so, I would love to remain so.. :-)

Huh.. Guys.. this is the story of my movie..
Life in Netherlands.. Countless Emotions... :-)
with some happy feelings and lot more sad feelings..
Truly, Madly and Deeply a feeling of Countless Emotions!!!

now Iam feeling Deep In the Heart of Mine..
WOW..What an End to the Story.. hahaha.. :-)
n as always.. Comments are most welcome.. :-)